smax
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Post by smax on Oct 25, 2008 18:17:21 GMT -5
Okie I have a question..... How would you feel if your ex-husband dated your sister.... Its been hmmm.... 14 years since we divorced and im dating her sister... Or Vice Versa what do the guys in the group think about this? Comments please!  |
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tabasco
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Post by tabasco on Oct 25, 2008 19:35:26 GMT -5
[shadow=red,left,300]Personally, if it were me I would just want to kill you and her. No one in my family would do that though. The ex is an ex for a reason meaning you. My sister did date a guy that I liked and she knew it, that hurt. But she is a wanker.[/shadow]
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tabasco
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Post by tabasco on Oct 25, 2008 19:36:28 GMT -5
By the way, weclome back sweetie! Where have you been and how the heck are ya?
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Post by Blue Clues on Oct 25, 2008 19:47:57 GMT -5
TC, your font is horrible. Nice pic though.
Neither my sister nor I would be interested in the other's exes. But I would be pissed if she was and did. Yes, Jerry Springer.
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smax
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Post by smax on Oct 26, 2008 7:04:45 GMT -5
By the way, weclome back sweetie! Where have you been and how the heck are ya? Haha.... Yea its kinda springer like... Figured id start my welcome back on an interesting note... Where have I been...? hmmmm... Okie lets see.... Ive been spending lots of time with my Daughter Jasmine she is now 3..... I spent a good part of 2006 in the hospital with a rare autoimmune disease which lead to Brain Surgery and lots of treatment which I still take..... I did 16 months of chemo therapy.... Ive been working as a Manager for a Car Rental Company for the last couple of years..... After 8 years of marrige it finally collapsed after I found out she cheated and got pregnant with another mans baby... The seperation lead to me giving away my house, yes giving away my house to my In-laws and the ex, which we built only a short few years ago.... Ultimatley my health and divorce lead to a financial colpase and many trips to court with my creditors.... Im on prohbation for the next 3 years.... long story.... Life is funny...so many curves, twists and turns.... Overall im pretty happy...Ive been in a relationship the last 6 months with a wonderful women.... Amazingly she doesnt judge me... I come with alot of baggage... She is a bit older then I...She is 45 and im 33.... Ironically she has 2 law degrees.... So you can kinda say it was a match made to be... Okie there is lots more......But in time..... I still like to post and take lots of pics so they will be coming soon..... ;D |
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Post by sc0tt on Oct 26, 2008 10:02:53 GMT -5
Two law degrees and she doesn't judge you - good one.
Is she also your ex mother in law or something?
Wow, that's the wildest story I've heard in a long time, I envy your optimism.
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beka
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Post by beka on Oct 26, 2008 11:53:59 GMT -5
Smax,
It is good to have you back. Please stick around. We've missed you. XXXOOO
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Post by vinny on Oct 27, 2008 14:14:36 GMT -5
Wow, Smax, you've sure been through the ringer! Welcome back to the fold, where we never judge!
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Post by tee4texas on Oct 27, 2008 14:22:58 GMT -5
those are definitely some great odds to overcome. Congrats on the recovery. We've never met but with time, you will be like most others here and come to idolize me.
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Post by monica on Oct 27, 2008 16:11:27 GMT -5
Smax!!! I'm so glad you made it here and I hope you'll be posting more often. Your life certainly has had a lot of drama lately, but the most important things are that you have your health and that your daughter is well.
Are you still on the west coast of FL?
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beka
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Post by beka on Oct 27, 2008 20:41:02 GMT -5
Anyone that any of my friends or family ever even DATED is strictly off-limits....forever. I come from a very loyal crowd.
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Post by vinny on Oct 28, 2008 9:20:37 GMT -5
So many people think it's about possessiveness or jealousy. I disagree. I do not want my friends to date my exes because at some point I like to hang out with my friends and their bfs. It would be awkward, at best, to hang out with my friend and her bf who is my ex. If it's an ex I don't particularly like, I wouldn't be able to be supportive of my friend or hang out with them at all.
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smax
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Post by smax on Nov 2, 2008 10:32:40 GMT -5
Haha....
Yea im still on the West Coast of Florida in Fort Myers.... Funny place....
Just to make it clear I never did date the sister...haha... Obviously since im with my legal hunnie..... At the end of the month we are moving in together and it will be us and our little ones..... She has a 7yr old girl......
Yea life has lots of challanges and im sure im not alone around here with everyone having thier own challanges.... If anything im a little more querky then before, if thats possible....lol
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mich
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Post by mich on Nov 3, 2008 7:31:27 GMT -5
I tend to agree with Vinny on this. By dating her sister, you're going to change the family dynamics.
I dated my best friend's brother for awhile. While the relationship went down the tubes, it made for a strained relationship between me and my friend - which thankfully we were able to overcome. This was with a good breakup though, since we just kind of drifted apart. Had the breakup been messy, I could have lost a very good friend.
JMHO
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Post by joe on Nov 26, 2008 12:43:37 GMT -5
Hey Smax.
DDW told me she'd come back from the grave and get me if I ever did her sister. My last gf has 4 sisters. When we had our makeover and she wasn't gf but a dear friend she told me that her sisters were off limits...some kind of sister agreement of theirs about exes.
I will be having the boys mom and her husband over for thanksgiving.
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